FATHER

Father. Baby daddy. Sperm donor. Either way you put it, its a sensitive subject.

My parents split when I was 3 months old or so. I've always known his name, who he is and he paid child support. I became old enough to learn, make my own decisions and realize, I was better off without him and my Mother did a good job raising me on her own. At 25 years old, nothing has changed. I've given him the benefit of the doubt to step up to the plate and play the role as a "father", and he has not. I've even given him the chance to be a grand-father to Jaselyn and he apparently has chosen not to. I've done all I can do. All I know is Jaselyn and I have one hell of a support system behind us either way, and I want to thank you all.

On that note, many have asked about Jaselyn's father and I'd rather refrain from anything regarding him. But long story short - we were long-term friends and dated a short period of time. I became pregnant and our relationship deteriorated as we could not get along. In (almost) 34 weeks of pregnancy he has done little to nothing for "us". Lets just say, there's a long road ahead of us but I'm too blessed to stay stressed. 45 days til she's here!